You may not realize it, but after your boyfriend breaks up with you, you have a choice. You can chase him and push him farther away or you can ignore him and pull him back. Your ex boyfriend knows this and he is betting that you will chase him. That will make you fall into his trap, so he can hurt and reject you some more. But, you can use male psychology to keep from falling into his trap.
To get your ex boyfriend back the easy way, you need to chose to ignore him. Just go about your life as if he does not exist. When he sees you living your life without him, he will have second thoughts about breaking up with you. He never thought you would give him up so easily and he will wonder if you ever did really love him. He will become confused and his pride will suffer a huge blow.
By not having any contact with him, you are showing him that he is not the center of your life. Although your ex boyfriend expected you to cry, beg and lose your dignity in an attempt to get him back, he will be impressed by your strength and maturity. This will make him desire you and want you back. But, if you let him just walk back into your arms, he will hurt you again because he knows you will take him back.
Male psychology will tell you that men want and appreciate what they cannot have. So you need to make him think he can no longer have you. Get dressed to the nines and go out with your friends. Stop by the place your ex hangs out and let him get a good look at the lovely woman he threw away. Flirt with some of the guys, but ignore your ex boyfriend and then leave.
By not falling into his trap and chasing him, you are causing your ex boyfriend to feel the pain and rejection you are feeling. But, men cannot take a lot of rejection and he will not be able to accept the thought of losing you. He will think about the good times you had together and want them back. That is when he will remember how he got you in the first place and your ex boyfriend will be chasing you again. By ignoring him and not losing your pride and dignity, you will get him back the easy way.