At the time your ex boyfriend broke up with you, you were speechless. You just cried and watched as he walked out of your life. Now you think you should have pleaded with him and told him you cannot live without him. But, you should be glad that you were speechless because what you need to do is make your ex realize he cannot live without you.
To get your ex back fast, you will have to fight your instincts. If you go running after him crying and begging you are going to show him that you are needy and desperate and you do not want him to see you that way. Men are not attracted to the type of woman that is weak and has to depend on him all of the time. What attracted him to you at the start was your strength and independence.
As long as you are around, trying to get him to talk things over, he cannot experience his life without you. Until you make him see how important you are to his life he will not feel he cannot live without you. He is still in love with you, but he is unhappy about something. He knows if he does not keep you away he will have to face the fact that he still loves you. To you that might be a reason to stay close to him, but it is just the opposite. The more you push him, the more he will pull away.
If you want to get your ex back fast, you will put as much distance between the two of you as possible. Men fall in love from a distance and if you give him the time and space, his love for you will rise to the surface. But you cannot give him this time by sitting at home waiting for him to call. To make him take action to get you back, he has to think he is losing you.
When you stopped trying to get him back, he began to wonder if you were over him. But, he will need a little more proof that you can have a life without him. You shouldn’t date any guys, but you can make your ex boyfriend think you might. To do that you need to go out with your friends and have some fun. Your ex will hear about this and think you are looking for a new guy.
When he broke up with you, your ex boyfriend never intended to lose you, but now he can see you slipping away. He was counting on the fact that he could get you back whenever he wanted to. Now he is not so sure of himself and he will think of how empty his life would be without you. That is when he will decide he cannot live without you.
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